Tips For Relationships With Men Who Have Commitment Issues

Tips For Relationships With Men Who Have Commitment Issues

All relationships with men that have commitment issues bring their own special challenges to the relationship arena. Any woman who has ever dated a man like this knows that it’s not an easy issue to resolve. If you’re in love with him, that can be even more problematic. Trying to get a man to enter into a serious relationship when he’s dead set against it feels virtually impossible. There are a few things that can help women facing this, so if your guy has told you that marriage just isn’t in his future, don’t give up on him just yet.

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The best thing you can do is to try to understand why he’s reluctant to commit. Usually, men have commitment issues because they’re afraid and the fear almost always involves fear of responsibility. It could be disguised as a fear of losing his freedom or fear of losing his old friends, but it usually boils down to a fear of responsibility. They’re afraid of taking on the responsibility of raising a family because nine times out of ten getting married means raising children as well.

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Arguably the worst thing women can do when they are involved with men with commitment issues is to overplay the issue of a more serious connection. The more you pressure your boyfriend for an engagement ring, the more he won’t want to buy you one. Men like this need to be handled in a very specific way and it starts with dropping all talk of marriage, or anything more serious than dating.

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If you’ve been dating for a long time, he’s obviously comfortable with you, otherwise, you wouldn’t be together. If you know how to gain his confidence so he’ll share his inner feelings and fears, you might be able to get him to disclose his fear of commitment. Once he confronts that fear, both of you will see that fear soon fade away.



Another tip for women that works very well in dealing with men who have commitment issues is to change your attitude about your relationship. Try changing your availability as well. If you are constantly available whenever your man wants to see you, you are sending him a message that says he has you all to himself. He doesn’t have to try to win you anymore because he feels that you are his regardless of a serious commitment.




You should be busy with different activities including spending more time out with friends. A great way to make a man realize how much you mean to him is to take a short vacation with some girlfriends without him. Don’t give him much warning at all. Just tell him that you’ll be gone for a few days and you’ll get in touch with him when you get back. This one move can completely shift the dynamics of the relationship and make him fear he’s losing you.


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